Speaking with The Washington Post, corporate trainer Paul Axtell explained:

In-person meetings provide a sense of intimacy, connection and empathy that is difficult to replicate via video. It’s much easier to ask for attentive listening and presence, which creates the psychological safety that people need to sense in order to engage and participate fully.”

On the other hand, virtual meeting fatigue has been called a “detriment to worker well-being and productivity,” which may result from several factors unique to the virtual setting, including:

  • Increased cognitive load due to prolonged gaze from others.
  • Apparent closeness of others.
  • Reduced mobility.
  • Unmet expectations regarding synchrony and nonverbal cues.
  • Loss of a sense of place.
  • Lessened scaffolding and supervision.
  • Reduced dynamic and nonconscious distribution of work among teammates.

Viewing self-video during virtual meetings is another factor that may lead to “mirror anxiety” and negative self-focused attention, which is not only psychologically stressful but may affect meeting performance and add to virtual meeting fatigue.

In another survey of 322 higher education faculty members, a moderate level of fatigue was reported during virtual meetings. Significant predictors of virtual meeting fatigue included a sense of being physically trapped, mirror anxiety, the interval between videoconferences and the duration of videoconferences.

Virtual communication may mess with your mind

Another theory for why virtual meetings can feel so psychologically taxing was proposed by Robby Nadler, director of UC Santa Barbara’s Academic, Professional and Technical Graduate Writing Development Program.

He describes virtual meeting fatigue as part of a larger computer-mediated communication (CMC) exhaustion, which emerges due to prolonged use of CMC platforms.

Part of the problem relates to the way your brain processes spatial cues, as virtual communications distort our typical sense of space.

“Because many people use platforms such as Zoom trying to replicate physical spatial interactions,” Nadler said in a University of California news release, “they ultimately exhaust themselves because, try as we might to create physical interactions, virtual space plays by different rules.”

He refers specifically to virtual communications leading to the creation of “third skins”:

“[T]hird skins are proposed to account for how nuanced differences in space between SOCs [synchronous online consultations] and face-to-face exchanges mean participants are not engaged as human actors but ‘flattened’ into a totality of third skin comprising person, background and technology.

“The resulting transformation and our bodies exerting substantial cognitive efforts to interact with this transformation are theorized to produce CMC exhaustion.”

Nadler used the example of chatting in a coffee shop, in which a coffee grinder makes noise in the background. All parties in your in-person meeting associate the coffee grinder with typical background noise in the shop. In a virtual setting, however, the coffee grinder in the background would be a disruption associated with you.

Nadler explained:

“So even though we like to think when we’re in a Zoom meeting that we’re engaging another person and all the rules of physical interactions hold … what we’re actually doing is engaging a particular representation that has all these gnarly spatial differences — and that’s where CMC exhaustion can come in because our minds want to do something that reality won’t permit.”

Ultimately, it’s likely that virtual meetings are here to stay, offering both benefits and drawbacks to the way humans interact and communicate on a daily basis, at work, school and in their personal lives.

On an individual level, balance is key. For every hour that you spend communicating virtually, make sure you can offset it with meaningful in-person communication and plenty of physical activity and daily movement, preferably in an outdoor, natural setting.

Originally published by Mercola.